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Upcoming Events

Join Christina D for welcoming classes, conversations, and community moments.

Jul 8-12

Naughty N'walins

The world's largest alternative lifestyle convention for kinky and ethically non-monogamous couples

Jul 24 -25

Enchanted Emporium

A curated fantasy makers market featuring authors, artisans, and bookish vendors

Sep 16-19

Smut Lovers

The largest educational event for romance authors and readers you have ever seen.

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For Romance Readers & Fantasy Lovers

Stories. Spice. Sisterhood.

A welcoming space for book lovers, kink-curious minds, and spicy story enthusiasts.

  • Read, discuss, and swoon together
  • Discover new favorites and hidden gems
  • Judgment-free, kink-friendly, and kind AF
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    Christina makes even the awkward stuff feel easy to talk about. I left her workshop feeling seen, empowered, and so much more confident.

  • — Alex P.

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  • — Morgan K.

    The book community is my safe place. Smart, spicy, hilarious — my kind of people.
    — Morgan K.

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